1. They Communicate Like a Grown-Up
If they actually tell you what’s bothering them instead of playing the silent treatment Olympics, you’ve struck gold. Healthy communication means no passive-aggressive sighing, no cryptic "I’m fine" texts, and definitely no expecting you to read their mind like a psychic. If they talk it out instead of storming out, you’ve got a winner.
2. They Make Plans Instead of Just Texting "WYD?"
A relationship should feel like a partnership, not a never-ending game of "What do you wanna do?" If they take initiative—whether it’s planning dates, making reservations, or even just suggesting a new movie to watch—they're showing effort. And effort is *sexy*.
3. They Respect Your Boundaries (And Actually Remember Them)
If you told them you hate pineapple on pizza and they never tried to sneak a slice onto your plate "just to see if you’ll like it this time," that’s a green flag. Respecting your boundaries, whether big or small, means they listen and care about your comfort and happiness.
4. They’re Supportive Without Being a Personal Cheerleader
It’s great when a partner hypes you up, but the real magic happens when they support you even when you’re struggling. If they encourage your goals, celebrate your wins, and help pick you up when things get rough (without treating you like a project they need to fix), that’s true partnership.
5. They Apologize Without Making It a Performance
A good apology does *not* include: "I’m sorry you feel that way" or "I guess I’m just the worst person ever." If they can own up to their mistakes without turning it into a dramatic monologue, congratulations—you’ve found someone emotionally mature!
6. They Handle Disagreements Like an Adult, Not a WWE Wrestler
Conflict in relationships is inevitable, but the way they handle it makes all the difference. If they listen, talk things through calmly, and don’t turn minor disagreements into a battle royale, that’s a major green flag. Bonus points if they don’t bring up something you did wrong in 2017 just to win the argument.
7. They’re Kind to Strangers, Not Just to You
It’s easy to be nice to the person you’re dating, but how they treat the waiter who got their order wrong? That’s the real test. If they’re kind, patient, and respectful to others—including service workers, their family, and even their ex (yep, that too)—you’ve got someone with good character.
8. They Give You Space Without Making It a Problem
You love them, sure, but do you want to be joined at the hip 24/7? Hopefully not. If they respect your need for alone time, don’t guilt-trip you for hanging out with friends, and have their own life outside of the relationship, that’s a healthy dynamic. Clinginess is *not* cute past the honeymoon phase.
9. They Make an Effort with Your Friends and Family
You shouldn’t have to drag them kicking and screaming to meet your loved ones. If they genuinely try to build a relationship with the important people in your life—without treating it like a chore—that’s a green flag waving proudly in the wind.
10. They Make the Little Things Feel Special
Grand gestures are nice, but it’s the little things that make a relationship thrive. If they remember how you take your coffee, send you memes that remind them of you, or randomly grab your favorite snack at the store just because, they’re showing consistent love and thoughtfulness.
Let's wrap it up
Finding the right person isn’t about waiting for someone perfect (spoiler alert: they don’t exist). It’s about recognizing the people who bring stability, happiness, and mutual effort into your life. So if you see these green flags waving in your relationship, don’t let go. They might just be the one worth committing to—and yes, that means it’s time to start thinking about that ring size.
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